What’s the female equivalent of an aubergine emoji??

So, here’s the thing about being a QuEeR girl you spend honestly about 80% of your life wondering, okay is this a new FrIeNd or are we going to snog at the end of this COFFEE/ HANG OUT/ LONG LUNCH/ ACCIDENTAL SLEEPOVER. Because really, you never know until you know. Surreptitiously bringing up that you’re into girls is a pretty sure fire way of at least assessing if you’re both on the same page attraction wise, but even then it can feel like a weird card game, where half the stack is missing and the other half has been set on fire. You heteros don’t know how easy you’ve got it.