what’s so hot about someone not liking you back?

Now, I’m talking about the people that despite being otherwise spoken for send fire emojis to your insta story, hit you with a 3 minute long voice note all about themselves, after months of no contact. And you forgive them all of this because they make you feel seen. Validated. Like a drug where you’re just looking for that next hit. What I lovingly call, the breadcrumbers.