“At my first lesbian bar I felt like a kid with braces attending a disco for the first time. I didn’t know what to wear. How to act. Who would be there? What would the other kids be like?! Were there rules??.”

A first date tells you a lot about someone. What they wear. Where you go. How they smell. (Just me?? ok). We thought we’d give you a run down of first date locations and what the hell your choice says about you…