My friends and I all talk like we’ve swallowed a self help/ psychology for dummies book. We talk about our “boundaries” and “triggers”, whilst scoffing pastries, flicking one another with buttery crusts. So, if you too want to be able to talk like a budget version of Esther Perelle! Look no further my fine feathered friend.

Get your head outta the gutter shania, we’re talking feet and inches in the height department. But where does all the heightist narrative come from in the world of love, sex and dating? Outdated gender roles, that’s where. This dynamic even exists in queer relationship with someone often taking on more quote unquote feminine or masculine roles. People had ALOT to say on this, so head to the link in bio to hear about the best stories from the feral/ flirty gang.

A friend of mine once ran after a man in Barcelona to ask for his number. He was riding a bike, bedecked in a striped tee and had, you guessed it a baguette poking out of his backpack. It’s what quirky indie rom coms are made of.

A first date tells you a lot about someone. What they wear. Where you go. How they smell. (Just me?? ok). We thought we’d give you a run down of first date locations and what the hell your choice says about you…