Get your head outta the gutter shania, we’re talking feet and inches in the height department. But where does all the heightist narrative come from in the world of love, sex and dating? Outdated gender roles, that’s where. This dynamic even exists in queer relationship with someone often taking on more quote unquote feminine or masculine roles. People had ALOT to say on this, so head to the link in bio to hear about the best stories from the feral/ flirty gang.

A friend of mine once ran after a man in Barcelona to ask for his number. He was riding a bike, bedecked in a striped tee and had, you guessed it a baguette poking out of his backpack. It’s what quirky indie rom coms are made of.

“At my first lesbian bar I felt like a kid with braces attending a disco for the first time. I didn’t know what to wear. How to act. Who would be there? What would the other kids be like?! Were there rules??.”

A first date tells you a lot about someone. What they wear. Where you go. How they smell. (Just me?? ok). We thought we’d give you a run down of first date locations and what the hell your choice says about you…

Is it you who compulsively deletes and redownloads dating apps depending on your level of loneliness/ horniness once a week, NO surely not I!!! That’s some other betch over there. But if that so happens to you know, maybe be you, hey hi feel free to slide into my DM’s (please). Now’s your chance to find out what your dating app preferences say about you and FINALLY understand what each app’s star sign is.